Emotional Awareness

Emotional Awareness or EQ as wat its commonly known is becomng a more favourable traits that company prefers than IQ which was consider a better choice in the past.

Why is this so?

I often rather view myself as a person with High EQ than IQ as i feel, to rule with the heart than the head will make life easier to explain.

So what does EQ exactly means?

Its simply means to be able to control your emotion instead of letting your emotions control u. Say u r caught in a traffic jam and is late for a very impt appointment. To make things worse, someone actually bang the back of your car. So what do u do?
1. U either keep ur cool and have things all straighten out, call up your appointment to inform of the accident. OR
2. Blow up your top and start blaming everyone and everything which goes wrong instead of getting things resolved.

So which of the above is a better choice?
To me, No. 1 seems the best way out. But how many of us are actually able to think in such a situation? Tht is why EQ comes in. U think of the consequences before making a move. Will flaring up solve anything in this case? No. Its better to keep ur cool and think of all possible solutions instead.

Which is why I often say... If u can walk away...and take a deep breathe. You will see things from a totally angle.

I really hope a someone can read this and realise tht he is really lacking in his EQ for all the stupid things tht he does. Once again.. My choice of keeping quiet is not becos I fear of losing but is becos I dun wish to quarrel. I am not a quitter, I just prefer to walk away and let things cool down. I dun do things for a moment of pride, I prefer to look at the big picture.

Once again its proven ... trust is not there btw the both of us. No matter how much we both hope things can work out... The bond is once again broken.